Marital Life

I have been married now for a month. People have been asking me how is married life. Seriously, I do not have an answer for that.

Do people ask for the sake of asking? Really, how different does a a month of marriage make? What do people expect me to say? No freedom? Can't go out with friends? I feel more domesticated? WHAT???? Stop asking me that! I hate it!

Life (strangely) remains the same. I don't feel any more different than I was before I was married or even before moving in on my own (except the house chores which is a killer). So when I say that it is the same, most replies sound like this "That is good for you!" What is the world does that mean? Do people have this secret secret wish that they hope that your life is not going to be as fantastic as their single ones? Do they expect you to complain about it and how you miss being unmarried???? And that will make them feel better about themselves??? I do not mean all singles, I do know some really bitter ones out there. I am in no way dissing those singletons or do I feel that I am better off because I am married.

Or am I missing the point? Maybe I am really suppose to feel some changes and I am not, and shite, my marriage is not normal because I do not feel any difference! Gosh, give me a break... ask me that in a year's time, maybe. just maybe I will have an answer.